-The ISTP (Why are you so dumb?) Stare -
So lately I've been assuming that my husband is an ISTP rather than an ISTJ as I formerly thought. Sometimes he's totally oblivious to the social requirements that others need from him. He'll be on his phone or DS while visiting with a group of people, but still be listening to the conversation.
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I asked him one night, "What's something that I used to do before we were married that really annoyed you?"
He replied, "Well, you used to start saying something while in a group of people and then slowly get quiet and not finish your story!"
What?!? He was listening? I would do that so often because I thought nobody was listening to me! Use eye contact, son!
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He'll also (very rarely) say things that may hurt other people without realizing how awful it is to say such a thing. If I, as a feeler, were to say that same thing, would be saying such to hurt someone intentionally.
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BTW, I flipped this image horizontally in SAI, and I thought... "Is this what it looks like to everyone else?? Ewww!"
